{"id":864,"date":"2026-01-17T22:53:02","date_gmt":"2026-01-17T22:53:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/?p=864"},"modified":"2026-01-17T22:53:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T22:53:07","slug":"kill-the-couple-in-your-head-eine-auseinandersetzung-mit-dem-paar-als-institution-der-macht","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/en-US\/buecher\/lokal\/kill-the-couple-in-your-head-eine-auseinandersetzung-mit-dem-paar-als-institution-der-macht\/","title":{"rendered":"Kill the Couple in your head"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote alignwide\"><blockquote><p>We want to talk about how those who attack the state recreate and reinforce its power through their participation in its intimate institutions, specifically the Couple via gender, the Family, and Sex.<br>Any transgression of normality \u2014 any threat to the order of things \u2014 must be pacified and incorporated; subversive currents are quickly channeled into, and claimed by, movements demanding equality or recognition from authority. We see both anarchists and queers reacting against one another in this sense \u2013 queers reacting against the cult of the patriarchal militant that anarchism so often embodies by devaluing attack and valorizing \u2018emotional labor\u2019 and identity. On the other hand, anarchists react to this reaction by valorizing normative social relations and devaluing the (feminized) terrain of the emotional, the intimate, the \u201cprivate\u201d.<br>We propose a transversal approach that rejects this useless deadlock and intends to attack authority on all levels \u2014 from the intimate to the structural\u2014 understanding that it is in the interest of power to maintain the idea that how we are controlled and how we control one another are separate concerns. We want to address these phenomena \u2014 gender, Family, Couple, Sex \u2014 as forms or institutions that capture our desires and energies. Our desire for companionship and commitment is sucked into the institution of the Couple and the Family.<br>Our erotic energies are captured by the institution of Sex. Gender is reproduced through the violence of these institutions. We want to understand how the prison functions so that we can stage a breakout, without creating new subcultural moral standards for a superior anarchist subject. We have all been caught in the snares of these social forms and it\u2019s not a question of purity.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table is-style-stripes\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>Jahr<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Seiten<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Format<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>ISBN<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>2021<\/td><td>20<\/td><td>Zine<\/td><td>\/<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading alignwide\">Notizen<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading alignwide has-text-align-left\">Links<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-social-links has-visible-labels is-layout-flex wp-block-social-links-is-layout-flex\"><li class=\"wp-social-link wp-social-link-chain  wp-block-social-link\"><a rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/ungratefulhyenas.noblogs.org\" class=\"wp-block-social-link-anchor\"><svg width=\"24\" height=\"24\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\"><path d=\"M15.6,7.2H14v1.5h1.6c2,0,3.7,1.7,3.7,3.7s-1.7,3.7-3.7,3.7H14v1.5h1.6c2.8,0,5.2-2.3,5.2-5.2,0-2.9-2.3-5.2-5.2-5.2zM4.7,12.4c0-2,1.7-3.7,3.7-3.7H10V7.2H8.4c-2.9,0-5.2,2.3-5.2,5.2,0,2.9,2.3,5.2,5.2,5.2H10v-1.5H8.4c-2,0-3.7-1.7-3.7-3.7zm4.6.9h5.3v-1.5H9.3v1.5z\"><\/path><\/svg><span class=\"wp-block-social-link-label\">Read Online<\/span><\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading alignwide has-text-align-left\">Galerie<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery alignwide has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We want to talk about how those who attack the state recreate and reinforce its power through their participation in its intimate institutions, specifically the Couple via gender, the Family, and Sex.Any transgression of normality \u2014 any threat to the order of things \u2014 must be pacified and incorporated; subversive currents are quickly channeled into, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21172,"featured_media":862,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_locale":"en_US","_original_post":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/?p=861","footnotes":""},"categories":[155,150,47,147,29,178,406,163],"tags":[402],"class_list":["post-864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anarchismus","category-anti-kapitalismus","category-digital","category-feminismus","category-lokal","category-queer","category-ungrateful-hyenas","category-zine","tag-freie-liebe","en-US"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21172"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=864"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":865,"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/864\/revisions\/865"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/862"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kamille.noblogs.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}